5.02.2015

Saturday Evening Stake Conference

So, I would like to do a better job at recording the insights I gain at church. We had the Saturday evening session of stake conference tonight and I think it was the best Saturday session I have ever been to! It was all about ward councils, which I loved because it was so practical.

-One thing they mentioned was the importance of family councils. I want to regularly counsel with my husband to see how each child is doing spiritually and what we need to teach them next. And father's interviews would be great! Councils altogether as a family can happen regularly. And I'm sure my kids will have awesome insights. Because I have the coolest kids ever...I just know it. :)

-The night before I finished my mission, my mission president gave us all advice about post-mission life. One thing he mentioned was to magnify our callings. He said, "If you're a nursery leader, be the best nursery leader that ward has ever seen!" I need to do SO MUCH better at this. I need to pray for inspiration on how to do so, and seeing as I'll be a visiting teacher for the rest of my life, I want to get in the habit of praying specifically for my sisters every day.

-The First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve are good examples of counseling--they do not pass an issue until every person unequivocally comes to the same decision. That is inspired counseling, and there's no reason it can't happen with families! It takes me back to my mission--my companion and I tried confirming our revelation with each other, and it was cool to see how often we both received the same prompting about who to go see!

-One of the speakers, Elder Smith of the Seventy, was so animated and fun! (Example: "If you stick around in this church long enough and keep your covenants, soon enough you'll be a former everything." AKA everyone will be on the ward council at some point because we all have a lot of different callings in our lifetimes! Also, he told the best story about how President Uchtdorf, he, and a companionship of sister missionaries were able to help Italy be more open to the gospel--each person, from a member of the Quorum of the Twelve to humble missionaries, is necessary to do the work!) We were all listening to his every word, and I thought again about how Heavenly Father wants us to be successful so that we can positively influence others and be a light on the hill. Do not confuse mediocrity with humility!

-The thought came to start praying every day for a stronger desire to help build Heavenly Father's kingdom, as well as daily opportunities to do so! Exciting!

-Our stake president had a powerful insight--I heard a lot of pens clicking to write it down as soon as he said it! He said, "we do need to receive confirmation of our promptings. Often it comes in the doing."

-"Keep your covenants, and make new ones." (Elder Smith) Such a good insight! It raises our vision.

-If the ward council was an essay, the thesis would be "How can we help these people?" Every conversation in ward councils should relate back to the thesis.

-"Inspiration often follows information." (President Brotherson) I love this insight! We should get all the information we can! He related this idea when he was explaining how the ward council would invite members who knew a lot of the ward members into some councils in order to know more of the stories about the people whom the council didn't know about. We did this on my mission once and we accomplished so much! It was cool to see how each person had a piece of the puzzle.

-Almost everyone in the ward has a right to revelation in their respective spheres because of their callings, whether it's a visiting teacher or the bishop.

-There is also power in couples' councils. President Brotherson shared a story from Elder Maxwell's life where he was exhausted from his day's work and illnesses. He came home and his wife told him he needed to go visit a specific neighbor. As he followed his wife's counsel, the neighbor told him that she knew he would come because she had been praying for him to. "We learned how the Spirit spoke to each other." That is such a powerful insight! I AM going to be with my husband for the rest of eternity, so I will come to understand how the Spirit speaks to him. President Brotherson also said sometimes it doesn't really matter which partner the prompting comes to--which made me think of the scripture that man and wife are to become one flesh.

Daily Repentance

"We all live on spiritual credit. In one way or another, the account builds and builds. If you pay it off as you go, you have little need to worry. Soon you begin to learn discipline and know that there is a day of reckoning ahead. Learn to keep your spiritual account paid off at regular intervals rather than allowing it to collect interest and penalties." -President Boyd K. Packer, "The Savior's Selfless and Sacred Sacrifice," April 2015 Ensign

4.28.2015

The Atonement in Our Everyday Lives

"President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, testified that we can apply the Atonement of Jesus Christ to remove our guilt: 'For some reason we think the Atonement of Christ applies only at the end of mortal life to redemption from the Fall, from spiritual death. It is much more than that. It is an ever-present power to call upon in everyday life. When we are racked or harrowed up or tormented by guilt or burdened with grief, He can heal us. While we do not fully understand how the Atonement of Christ was made, we can experience ‘the peace of God, which passeth all understanding’ [Philippians 4:7]. . . .We all make mistakes. Sometimes we harm ourselves and seriously injure others in ways that we alone cannot repair. We break things that we alone cannot fix. It is then in our nature to feel guilt and humiliation and suffering, which we alone cannot cure. That is when the healing power of the Atonement will help. The Lord said, ‘Behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent’ [D&C 19:16]. . . . “The Atonement has practical, personal, everyday value; apply it in your life. It can be activated with so simple a beginning as prayer. You will not thereafter be free from trouble and mistakes but can erase the guilt through repentance and be at peace” (in Conference Report, Apr. 2001, 28–29; or Ensign, May 2001, 23–24)." -Book of Mormon Institute Manual, pg. 207

This can lead us to a sincere appreciation of the Atonement in this life, not just at Judgment Day. Also, I truly begin that things always begin with prayer. When we are lost or have fallen, prayer is how we reach out and are able to be lifted up. At the front of my copy of the Book of Mormon I have written, "If you're lost, PRAY!" It is one of the most powerful gifts in our lives.

4.27.2015

"Hope is the thing with feathers" -Emily Dickinson

“Hope” is the thing with feathers -
That perches in the soul -
And sings the tune without the words -
And never stops – at all -

And sweetest – in the Gale – is heard -
And sore must be the storm -
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm -

I’ve heard it in the chillest land -
And on the strangest Sea -
Yet – never – in Extremity,
It asked a crumb – of me.

4.23.2015

Books to Read

I'm been keeping little sticky notes in my mind of books I want to read someday, so I figured I would deposit them here...hopefully this list will get longer...

books
-The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
-The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor
-Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
-Counseling with Our Councils by Elder M. Russell Ballard
-The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom
-The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis...and basically everything by C.S. Lewis
-The Enoch Letters by Elder Neal A. Maxwell
-Visions of Glory by John Pontius
-Journey to the Veil by John Pontius
-The Miracle of Forgiveness by President Spencer W. Kimball

movies
-White Christmas
-The Cowboys

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Plus, I would like to keep a list of things to give to strengthen my future family. Here there are:

books
-The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey
-Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom
-The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
-Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis
-Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
-Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling

television
-The Andy Griffith Show
-...that's basically it

movies
-Tuesdays with Morrie
-Gandhi
-Chariots of Fire
-17 Miracles
-Ephraim's Rescue
-A Little Princess
-Unbroken
-all the classic Disney movies (Lion King, Hercules, Pocahontas, etc.)

talks
-Stay By the Tree by Elder Kevin W. Pearson
-Cast Not Away Therefore Your Confidence by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
-Things as They Really Are by Elder David A. Bednar

songs
-lots of classical music
-lots of Mormon Tabernacle Choir
-At the Edge by Jonathan Elias
-David Tolk
-Paul Cardall
-EFY music
-The Lamb of God and Saints and Pioneers by Rob Gardner
-Gabriel's Oboe by Jenny Oaks Baker
-Jon Schmidt

hobbies and talents
-family history
-running
-gardening
-calligraphy
-spiritual creation and affirmations
-cooking
-piano
-singing
-tennis
-drawing

places
-Nauvoo. For sure. No doubt.
-Temple Square

traditions
-family Skype
-family dinners
-tender mercies
-board games

Scripture Power

"Your gospel study is most effective when you are taught by the Holy Ghost. Always begin your gospel study by praying for the Holy Ghost to help you learn. He will bring knowledge and conviction that will bless your life and allow you to bless the lives of others. Your faith in Jesus Christ will increase. Your desire to repent and improve will grow. This kind of study prepares you for service, offers solace, resolves problems, and gives you the strength to endure to the end." -Preach My Gospel, pg.

The scriptures are a very powerful way to help you do what is right. It is what helped me to come to Virginia. I remember one day needing courage to follow through with the prompting, and so I just opened the Book of Mormon and flipped randomly, page after page. Phrases like "blessed are they who will...hearken unto the voice of the Lord their God; for these are they that shall be saved", "they did pray unto the Lord their God continually, insomuch that the Lord did bless them", and even the warning stories of people who pridefully "depended upon their own strength" and "did walk after the desires of [their] own heart[s]"--these phrases gave me the courage and the perspective to act. I am so grateful for the scriptures. I feel like just reading them alone helps me to do what's right, even if I'm not aware of it. I know that they keep me on-track every day, remembering the things that matter most. They are the spiritual compass that helps me see where I may be getting off-course in my life so I can make course corrections. They are a spiritual measuring stick as I ask myself introspective questions. They invite the Spirit so that if there is more specific counsel just for me, I can hear it. They are my spiritual nourishment, and I will never stop reading them.

4.21.2015

The Reality of Angels

From Elder Holland: “I am convinced that one of the profound themes of the Book of Mormon is the role and prevalence and central participation of angels in the gospel story. . . .One of the things that will become more important in our lives the longer we live is the reality of angels, their work and their ministry. I refer here not alone to the angel Moroni but also to those more personal ministering angels who are with us and around us, empowered to help us and who do exactly that (see 3 Ne. 7:18; Moro. 7:29–32, 37; D&C 107:20). . . .I believe we need to speak of and believe in and bear testimony of the ministry of angels more than we sometimes do. They constitute one of God’s great methods of witnessing through the veil, and no document in all this world teaches that principle so clearly and so powerfully as does the Book of Mormon” (“For a Wise Purpose,” Ensign, Jan. 1996, 16–17)." -Book of Mormon Institute Manual, pg. 195

This is such a comforting thought, such a good affirmation to tell myself in hard times. There are angels all around us to bear us up through our hardest times, just as they comforted and strengthened the Savior during the Atonement. I have SO many angels on this side of the veil, and I believe that there are more than I know on the other side. I also believe that those angels who are given charge over us are loved ones we know who have passed on. And I believe that angels are given special charge over children. :) One of my goals is to be an angel for the loved ones in my life. My mama is definitely my angel, and an angel to everyone around her. She is one of the purest, happiest, most selfless women I know, taking me by the heart and the hand since I was a toddler--and she will continue to for eternity!